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Can Masturbation Help My Marriage?

By Craig Gross About This Episode Download Podcast Episode Welcome back to another episode of the Panic Button Podcast. This week, I’ve got another question about masturbation. So today’s question is: “Can masturbation help my marriage?” We’re taking the whole month to talk about masturbation because everywhere I go, people want to justify what they […]

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Can I Masturbate to Photos of My Wife?

By Corrin Bauer About This Episode Download Podcast Episode Welcome back to another episode of the Panic Button Podcast. This week, I’ve got another question about masturbation. The email asks: “What’s your take on masturbation if I do think of my wife?” It’s a good question, honestly. I travel a lot, I’m away from my […]

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Is Masturbation Helping Me Stay Pure?

By Craig Gross About This Episode Download Podcast Episode Today’s episode of the Panic Button Podcast features a question we receive from folks often: “Is there any way that masturbation helps you stay pure?” I mean, if by “staying pure” you mean not having sex or getting an STD then… sure, it can “help.” I’ve […]

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What Are the Psychological Effects of Masturbation?

By Craig Gross About This Episode Download Podcast Episode In today’s Whiteboard Session, Steven Luff, a licensed MFT (Marriage and Family Therapist) in the state of CA, co-author of Pure Eyes: a Man’s Guide to Sexual Integrity and creator of the X3pure on-line recovery program, answers this question: what are the psychological effects of masturbation? […]

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My Husband Won’t Stop Looking at Porn

By Craig Gross About This Episode Download Podcast Episode So this question came in from a wife: “My husband said he would never look at porn again. Why does he continue? I don’t understand why he won’t take ownership for his life, his issues, his shit, and clean up his mess.” So they’re kind of […]

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I’m Bored at Work and Look at Porn, Please Help

By Craig Gross About This Episode Download Podcast Episode So this week the question is, “I love my wife, but due to the nature of my job, I’m on my computer. I’m bored at my job so I find myself ending up on sites and looking at things I shouldn’t. What should I do?” Well, […]

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I Keep Trying Harder but Keep Failing

By Craig Gross About This Episode I’ve been helping men and women overcome porn addiction for 18 years so I’ve seen a lot of people try to quit pornography. The problem is so many people think they just have to try harder. They white knuckle it and then feel incredibly frustrated and defeated when they […]

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What Is Wrong with Pornography Anyways?

By Craig Gross About This Episode When I go to speak at events, I get this question during the Q&A just about every time. Basically the question is always some form of, “why are you picking on porn? What’s the big deal?” And I’ll usually laugh and say, “I wouldn’t have the job I have […]

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What Is Behind My Compulsive Behavior?

By X3 About This Episode In today’s Whiteboard Session, Steven Luff, co-author of Pure Eyes: a Man’s Guide to Sexual Integrity and creator of the X3Pure 30-Days to Purity on-line recovery program, answers a question we get a lot: what’s behind my compulsive behavior and how do I stop it? Steve uses the whiteboard to […]

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3 Ways to Move Past Sexual Regret

By J.S. Park Before we get to the 3 Ways….we want you to learn from this story. Monica Lewinksy, the notorious center of the scandal that will forever plague former President Bill Clinton, made a remarkable statement in her recent TED Talk: “I was Patient Zero of losing a personal reputation on a global scale […]

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4 Deceptively Simple Ways To Rebuild Broken Trust

By Seth Taylor We can’t change each other; we can only change ourselves. That’s just one of the hard and fast truths about relationships, and yet we tend to spend tremendous amounts of time and energy ignoring it. Hey, I get it: sometimes that person really needs to change. But guess what: we all need […]

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3 Ways to Look and Not Lust

By Carl Thomas If you are a guy and have been involved in some sort of accountability group (like an X3group), no doubt the subject of “lust” has come up. In my group on Wednesday mornings we talk about this often. Usually the conversation focuses on 3 things: 1. What is lust? 2. How do […]

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How Long…

By XXXchurch Visitor Letter to myself: I have both loved you and hated you for so long. The freedom I know in my heart that Jesus promises me has alluded me most of my life because of you. You have been so overwhelmingly exciting to me at times and yet so very controlling. You have […]

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You Can Find Freedom If You Can Take The First Step

By Seth Taylor Centuries ago, Celtic Pilgrims would head out on Pilgrimage with a little money and a little food in a pouch, having no destination or plan. The idea was pretty simple: rather than seeking God to illuminate the path they were walking and take away their fear as a result; instead they sought […]

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4 Ways to Deal with Loneliness

By Alice Taylor Loneliness sucks. It’s a feeling of isolation that can feel as debilitating as physical illness. There are many ways loneliness can manifest, and even more reasons why, but let’s talk about romantic loneliness: a lack of that special kind of intimacy that comes from a partner we all crave so deeply. Most […]

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3 Quick Tips to Handle the Truth About Yourself

By J.S. Park Self-improvement always sounds like a great thing until we actually dig in and get our hands dirty. We talk about the need for accountability, but the second we turn that scalpel inward, we flinch and fight and justify our way out. It can be messy, awful work to hear the truth about […]

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8 Practical Tips To Quit Masturbating

By Jeff Fisher Quitting masturbation isn’t easy–even veterans still have challenges in this area. But it is a battle you can win. Here are some practical ideas that have helped me: 1. Have Healthy Outlets Masturbators are energetic, creative, and passionate people who have a lot to offer. Find healthy places where you can take […]

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Her Favorite Oxymoron

By Jeff Borkoski Webster’s defines oxymoron as “a combination of contradictory or incongruous words.” Here are a few of my favorite: Freezer burn, pretty ugly, loose tights, soft rock, numb feeling, minor crisis, only choice, growing smaller, random order, jumbo shrimp, and quite possibly the most wickedly ingenious phrase ever devised by evil marketers and […]

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Porn addiction

By XXXchurch Visitor Letter to myself: I don’t know how to say it I’m a 55year old male and I can’t get an erection without watching porn i need to do it to touch my wife Letter from my sex addict: I don’t know what I’m doing The post Porn addiction appeared first on XXXchurch.com.

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4 Ways Porn Will Ruin Your Sex Life

By Shellie R. Warren A couple of years ago, Huffington Post published an article with this title: “5 Reasons Why Watching Porn Together Can Be Good For Your Relationship.” Their reasons? 1. It is a shared experience. 2. It’s an easy way to learn about your partner’s fantasies. 3. It can speed up foreplay. 4. […]

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One Way to Help Your Spouse Recover

By Melissa Ruff Do you really want to know how to help your spouse the most during his or her recovery from porn addiction? Work on your own recovery. Sounds kind of backward, doesn’t it? Well, it isn’t. In fact, it is the exact thing that you need to do at this exact moment in […]

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